Don't Jump part four

"Discipling", what is it?

"Discipling" is not really a word but I like to use it anyway. You could say "Making Discplies" but that infers that they are finished and not in the process. So for all you English scholars out there, please forgive me.

To disciple another is a difficult spiritual task. We usually think of discipline as a term describing our own ability to control ourselves but Christian discipline is taught. Jesus taught His disciples. They became disciplined in the Christian faith and life. Discipling someone is the long spiritual process by which we help converts become conquerors. It is the process that turns a belief system into a way of life; the Christian life.

Discipling others can be tough and we must always keep a spiritual perspective when doing so. When we fail to make disciples we end up with a church full of spiritual babies whose only concern is for themselves; what can God do for me?

When helping others become disciples of Christ, we must remember that we are working with humans; imperfect people who are trying to live a life that only Jesus has been able to live. Even our own sin and failures should remind us to be aware of the humanity in those who are not as far down the road as we are. So be prepared. Don't jump out of your boots when you find out that your protegee is making bad decisions. The next time they come to you in confidence keep your jaw closed, stay away from the impulse to say, "How could you" or "I can't believe you did that". What's so hard to believe; that people do dumb things. Aren't you human too? Can you remember a time when your sin came to light and someone gave you a look of shame or a speech that just made you feel guilty. Be careful or God just might open up your closet and turn the light on some of the bonehead things that you have done.

The point is this; life is messy. People are messy. Christians are messy and they need encouragement and understanding. They need to know that their failures aren't the end of the world and that God can help them overcome. So be prepared for anything. I've heard a lot of confessions in my ministry and from time to time I am still surprised or caught off guard. But I make sure to keep my mouth closed and my toes clinched so I don't jump out of my boots in shock. It lets them know that God and I won't abandon them, even when they blow it.